相见不如怀念

今天深深体会了“相见不如怀念”的道理
若相见对彼此是那么的尴尬，那又何必呢？
若我们今天并没打那招呼是不是彼此都会愉快些呢？

或许我该开心能碰上老朋友，
但怎么又不见得彼此是那么开心的呢？
怎么也不觉得身旁的人也替我们开心。

或许下次，“怀念” (可能是我迷信吧，或许是我多心了，总觉得怀念有种较“不吉利”的感觉 :P)
就好吧？

Snooze mode onz!!!

OMG OMG............ he's talking slide by slide, line by line..
Ignoring whether we r listening or absorbing or not..
Though not exactly monotonous but he's bad enough..
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I want JY for instructor!!!
=(

At least ur email made my day...

this is how i feel today............... throughout the WHOLE day....

extracted from S.H.E.'s <<天灰>>

"我的天空今天有點灰　我的心是個落葉的季節
我不知道如何度過今夜　 所有的燈　早已經全都熄滅"

Thanks for your mail... it did make it better...
Although the day is ending in 15 mins...
But at least it did help make it seems cheerier than it is...and I guess I probably will be able to sleep better...

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Vandalism

Was in the washroom at some certain shopping centre in Singapore.
The walls and doors are badly vandalised by students (I presumed its done by students as there've been traces of school names, classes being mentioned everywhere).
I found something in a corner which I think its quite nicely written.
Nah..I'm not trying to encourage vandalism. It's not right definitely..

Can't remember exactly what it says. But it's talking about A who has crashed B's dreams. B was forced to wake up from the dream unwillingly and hopes A will not leave B to face it alone....It was written in chinese n I think the flow was nice. I have this impression it's written by a Secondary school student. If the author is just a teenager, I think she has great potential!

If the author could make use of her talent to write poems or short stories, I'm sure she'll do a great job! Why write on walls??? I'm sure there's a lot of other places where u can write...抒发情绪是没错的，但是请注意管道。

祝愿天下有情人，情人节快乐！凡拥有爱情、友情、亲情的，人人都快乐！

在跟朋友用餐时，闲话家常。。
聊起一些感情上的事情，想在这与大家分享：

友人1：当男方不送女方花时，女方又会期待他会“自动”，不必在一旁只有羡慕旁人的份
友人2：每逢“过节”他都送花，总觉得他干嘛那么奢侈？不如把那笔钱给你花不是更实际？

基本上，情人愿意在这么奢侈的情况下为你付出，应该好好惜缘。
反正，你拒绝收花，他也不见得真会把钱汇给你，不如好好的享受这一年一度的浪漫吧。。。

友人1：他不送礼物，她会暗示。当他受到暗示，送上礼物，她又觉得没意思、觉得太没诚意。
友人2：若他平时都不送礼物，突然送她礼物，又似乎在意味着，他做了些不该做的事。

友人1： 若他和她性格相似，时间久了，冲突会很多。就因为太相象，一举一动都了如指掌。
友人2： 但若两人性格、爱好差异太大，问题也变大了。时间久了，共同话题少了，距离远了，沟通也有可能顿时产生问题。
友人3：不是说Opposite attracts 吗？
我：不过若思想差异太多，就很麻烦了。会为了避免争吵而少沟通。缺乏沟通的二人世界，冷得比北极还冻。但是若成天你一言，我一语，争论得没完没了，也不行啊。思维相差太远，又好像鸡同鸭讲。

我：若一方不对你说“我爱你”，你会开始怀疑他(她)对你的感情的深浅
反观，若对方常把“我爱你”挂在嘴边，你又会觉得这三个“神圣”的字来得太没诚意
似乎成了他(她)面对你时的口头禅。是拿捏的问题吗？这方程式是否有人能解答呢？

我、众友人：若是要“讨”的，太没意。。宁可没有。

我、众友人：一直没得到的，久了就不再期待、不再渴望拥有。到时，即使你要给，我也不要了。

我想，都是这样吧。往往时机很重要。过了，做什么也于事无补，时光是不会因你而倒流。我的想法也不会因此便得更单纯、天真。等久了，人总会累、总会气馁。

人总那么矛盾。或许这就是人性吧，未能拥有的，总是多了那份神秘感，多了那份好奇心，多了那份欲望。但拥有后，又觉得其实也没什么嘛。是时候，人们重新调整心态和思想了吗？

<<我会用真心填满你的孤单>>

我会用真心填满你的孤单
作词：刘锦才　作曲：李伟菘　编曲：屠颖 唱：郑展伦

请不要再将伤痕挂在你脸上　明知爱情不一定能地久天长
换个空间别再拥抱孤单　别再为失去的昨天旁徨

请不要再将伤痕挂在你脸上　明知爱情不一定能如愿以偿
昨日缠绵瞬息间成变换　没有结果的爱情不必纠缠

为何不尝试来靠靠我肩膀　选择我的爱成为你温柔的护航
不管明天道路坎坷漫长　我会用真心填满你的孤单

~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+

由郑展伦演唱 (在网络寻找歌词时，竟发现钟汉良曾经唱过，
并收入其专辑里，但是本身并没听过。)
一首我好喜欢的歌。。。一首很棒的歌。
每回听着它，总是那么有意境。。。

的确，没有结果的爱情不必纠缠。。。
不过，不是爱的越深越无法不纠缠
就因为付出多了，也多了那份纠缠

我们总喜欢去寻找那抓不住的“幸福”
宁可尝试那没结果的爱情
如果我们能够那么理智地选择那可填满内心孤单的人
那就意味着这爱情就能地久天长吗？

<<聽說愛情回來過>>

聽說愛情回來過
作詞：李偲菘 ／ 作曲：李偲菘

在朋友那兒聽說
知心的你曾回來過
想請他替我向你問候
只為了怕見了說不出口
你對以往的感觸還多不多
曾讓我心碎的你
我依然深愛著

在朋友那兒聽說
知心的你曾找過我
我要他幫我對你隱瞞
只是怕見了面會更難過
我對以往的感觸還那麼多
曾給我幸福的你
我依然深深愛著

有一種想見不敢見的傷痛
有一種愛還埋藏在我心中
我只能把你放在我的心中
這一種想見不能見的傷痛
讓我對你的思念越來越濃
我卻只能把你把你放在我心中

對你的聲音 你的影 你的手
我發誓說我沒有忘記過
而關於你選擇了現在的他
我只能說我有些難過
我也真心真意的等過

~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+~=~+

听这首歌总是带来太多太多的感触。。。
太多太多的想法，太多太多的回忆，或许往事只能回味，所以才会那么美。。。

曾经那么熟悉，曾经那么深刻。
我们是两个对的人在错的时间爱了一回呢？
还是两个错的人在对的时间爱了一回？
我已分不清。或许也不重要了吧？

对你的思念是有的。对你的愧疚也有。
现在隐藏在心底的，也只能让它继续埋葬着。
曾经浮现出台面的都是完完全全属实的。
真的是刻骨铭心过，或许我们都过不了那退热后的那一关吧。
歌词的最后三句，对我而言，还是那么的贴切。。。。

Music of the Li Brothers 亲亲菘菘音乐会

Just came back from the concert 2 hours ago. The concert is part of the 华艺 festival 2006. We bought tickets from Category 2 and was sitting at the 3rd row from the stage! It's an up-close-n-personal experience at a concert! But I must say it's worth the price to pay for!


I think it's a pretty interesting concert. A concert that brings back loads of memories of the past. The walk down memory lane was filled with special guests performances.. Singers whom we are all so familiar with but yet have not seen them performed for a long while.. Songs of past tv serials which we grew up listening to.. Full of lots n lots of surprises!


Guests includes 刘雪芳，陈彼得，蔡礼莲，叶良俊，田劲，郑展伦，吴庆康，彭佳慧，黄义达... And of cos not forgetting the 2 stars of the night... 李伟菘，李偲菘. Other than the star studded guests list.. there are alot of stars amongst the audience too! Amongst whom are 洪绍轩 who's sitting right behind me, Sun Ho who's a few rows behind us.


The concert kicked off with the 2 brothers singing the theme song for 最后一个大侠.... OMG OMG OMG... it's such an old song but yet it brought back so much memories!
刘雪芳 sang theme songs from the drama 迷离夜. It's been such a long time since she made a public appearance I guess let alone to sing her sing! Her singing is still so good! 田劲 still looks so well built...，叶良俊 looks so hype now! He sure looks like he shed quite a fair bit of weight (he's already quite average build in the past!) 蔡礼莲 still sang soooooooooo beautifully as usual...


When 陈彼得 came on, thoughts flashed through my mind... What happens when <> meets <>... (In case anyone goes blur, 陈彼得 is one of the judges for the former and 李伟菘 is one of the judges for the latter) And what'll happen is what we see on stage! Haha... I'm korny I know :P


It's really fantastic to see so many singers all in one night.. singing songs which are so familiar to all. Listening to 郑展伦's <<我会用真心填满你的孤单>> was so wonderful. Always liked this song...listening to him sing live is soooooooooooo WOW... 动人的歌声，感人的歌词，牵动着我的心。


It's my first time seeing 彭佳慧 in person. OMG.. she's soooooooooooooooo petite!!! And she has a FABULOUS complexion!!! OMG OMG OMG........ And of cos not forgetting her ever so powerful voice.


Then another surprise was from 黄义达. Didn't realise that he'll sound so "沧桑" when singing live. But then I must admit he sure did well singing live. Never know he could sound so different live... For the better I feel...Great job!


Throughout the concert, the Li Brothers had the instructors & students from their music school to perform as well. One of them looked so much like 启胜 from 爱琴海。Thought I mistook someone else for 启胜，it was when the singer mentioned his name then it was confirmed that the singer is indeed 启胜 himself. I really didn't realise he's a full time instructor at Lee Wei Song School Of Music That's quite a surprise... 启胜 is a great musician, always liked his performance in 爱琴海 but didn't know he's teaching music as a full time job! Ok, I guess I'm 孤落寡闻 la...


偲菘's rendition of <<听说爱情回来过>> is something different from the usual female soft sentimental version that I've heard. The song still brings floods of memories, emotions, thoughts.. It's a beautiful song with beautiful lyrics.. Lovely lovely song.. The 2 brothers sang the 主打歌 from their 1st album.... 载歌载舞... other than singing, dancing... the audience were fed with an eye feast of costumes n vcr clips of artistes wishing them success in the concert, clips of the 1985/1986 斗歌竞艺! Seeing 李伟菘 in his 80's looks, I guess most audience would agree he looks better now! Haha...(Hey, that's what he hopes too! He asked the audience this qn on stage! :P)


And of cos the biggest surprise for both the Li Brothers and all audience was the appearance of Sun Yanzi towards the end of the concert. She was supposed to be busy and not able to attend the concert. They had a vcr of Yanzi congratulating the brothers and wishing them all the best for their concert. At the end of the concert, the 2 brothers were busy reading off the list of names they wanted to thank. As they read off the last name, Yanzi was there standing at the corner of the stage with 2 bouquets of flowers. Her appearance shocked everyone but it was a pleasant surprise indeed! She sang 天黑黑 at the concert! I'm really seeing her from a rather close distance from the stage! I was sitting somewhere soooooooooo far away during her concert in January. Even those who bought Cat 1 tickets for her concert wasn't able to see her at such a close distance due to the venue...Now I'm watching her sing at such close distance at her 恩师's concert! So cool!!!! Her appearance totally drove her fans krazee!!!